Frank O'Connor's My Oedipus Complex

HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS

Human relationships is a relation between people; ("relationship" is often used where relation would serve, as in the relationship between inflation and unemployment, but the preferred usage of relationship is for human relations or states of relatedness)

TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS IN OUR LIVES DAILY:

• Family relations: without place to doubt it is the first place where we learn to relate, how communicated, and family interaction occurs will influence the way we relate with others people.

• School relations: The school teaches subjects for our intellectual development in our daily lives, it also shows us our first social relations. After reaching age to enter preschool, school becomes second in importance to establish human relationships, that's where learned practiced earlier in our family circle. In school we learn to respect others people. We also learn to live together for the first time with people, children, teachers, and that is where tolerance and respect is practiced.

• Friendly relations: the school is a place where there can be lasting friends, also there exist good friends that we have near to the place where we live. The friendship there enters the respect, the tolerance, the acceptance so much of one himself as of other and the confidence.

• Relationships in the workplace: Labor relations are those established as its name suggests, in the workplace. These relationships are characterized to involved there in two important roles, boss or employer, business owner or director of the same and employees or workers, this relationship is regulated by contracts work, responsibilities, duties, workers' rights and wages.

• Couple relations: Without place to doubt one of the relations important in the life of a person as well as the relationship family, is established with your partner. In this type of relationships, trust, respect and tolerance are factors extremely important.   
  

 This is how the different types of human relationships are explained, which can exist or at least those that are considered more present in society. We must take into account that always influence them respect and tolerance, as well such as education, family values and coexistence. 

There are other types of human relationships:

Primary:

Are those in which it treats the person as it really is, not by function or because we provide a service.

-The Relationship of a couple.

-The Family relationships.

Secondary:

Are those that are given in terms of a profit.

  - Doctor - patient relationships

  - Customer - engineer.

  - Teacher - student

BULLYING TEST

Answer this test in your notebook, giving reasons for each question

 

BULLYING TEST

1. If a bully wants your money, you would:

a) fight (quarrel) with him/her.

b) scream and try to run away.

c) give all your money to him/her.

2. If someone bumps into you by accident, you would:

a) hit him/her.

b) give him/her a chance to apologize.

c) sit and cry.

3. If an older person pushes you around when you’re in the bathroom, and threatens you not to tell anybody, and tells you that something bad will happen to you in the contrary case, you would:

a) wait until he goes away, and tell this to a teacher.

b) fight with him.

c) accept this and not tell anyone.

4. If someone comes and shouts at you by using negative and rude words while you are in the dining hall, you would:

a) ignore him/her.

b) shout at him/her, too.

c) tell him/her to calm down.

d) ask an adult for help.

5. If a group of bullies call you bad names or disturb and harass you with swearwords, you would:

a) tell them to go away.

b) respond by using the same kind of words.

c) find an opportunity to  inform an adult about the situation by determining witnesses.

d) ignore.

6. If a friend is being assaulted by bullies, you would;

a) thank God that you’re not in his/her shoes.

b) immediately go to the victim and attack the bully and push him/her.

c) call other children for help.

d) inform an authority or an adult and ask for help.

7. If a person from school comes to you while you are walking in the park on the
weekend and he pushes you around, corners you, he takes your money by
force and runs away, you would:

a) tell the situation to your parents.

b) tell it to your teacher what happened.

c) notify the police/security.

d) follow him/her

8. If your sister or brother always treats you in a tyrannous manner, you would:

a) punch him/her.

b) pour a pailful of water over him/her.

c) make this a current issue when all the family members are together, and open it

 up for discussion to put an end to this bullying.

9. If your teacher treats you badly all the time, you would:

a)  inform your family about the situation.

b)  talk to your teacher or your psychological counsellor about the situation.

c)  inform the school manager about this.

d)  ignore this. 

10. If your parents treat you tyrannously, you would:

a)  talk to your teacher or your psychological counsellor about the situation.

b)  tell it to one of your close relatives (aunt, uncle etc).

c)  not tell it to anyone.